Uyiqala njani iNcoko kwiTinder

Uyiqala njani iNcoko kwiTinder

Kwihlabathi lanamhlanje ledijithali, ii-apps zokuthandana zidlala indima ebalulekileyo kwindlela esisebenzisana ngayo. I-Tinder, enye yezona qonga zidumileyo zokuthandana, iguqule indlela⁢ esidibana ngayo nabantu abatsha. Nangona kunjalo, Ukuqala incoko kwiTinder kunokuba ngumngeni kubasebenzisi abaninzi. Kweli nqaku, siza kuphonononga ezinye izicwangciso zobugcisa kunye neengcebiso eziphambili zendlela yokuqalisa incoko eyimpumelelo kweli qonga

Umbono wokuqala uhlala ubala, ngakumbi⁢ kwiqonga elifana ne-Tinder apho ukhuphiswano luphezulu. Kubalulekile yenza iprofayile ekhangayo nenomtsalane ukutsala umdla we abanye abasebenzisi. Ukongeza, ukuba neefoto ezicacileyo, ezikumgangatho olungileyo, kunye nengcaciso emfutshane, enyanisekileyo ngawe, kunokwenza wonke umahluko. Khumbula, Isitshixo sokuqalisa incoko eyimpumelelo kwi-Tinder siqala ngentetho yakho ebonakalayo nechazayo..

Xa ufumana iprofayile enomdla kuwe, kubalulekile funda kwaye uhlalutye ulwazi olukhoyo. Rhoqo, inkcazo yomsebenzisi inokukunika imikhondo ebalulekileyo malunga nezinto abanomdla kuzo, izinto abazithandayo, okanye isihloko esiqhelekileyo onokusisebenzisa ukuqalisa incoko. ⁢Ukongeza, jonga iifoto ngokucophelela iya kukuvumela ukuba wenze izimvo ezenzelwe wena ngakumbi kwaye ubonise umdla wokwenyani kwi omnye umntu.

Nje ukuba uvavanye iprofayile kwaye unolwazi olufanelekileyo, lixesha lokuba qala incoko enentsingiselo. Yiphephe imiyalezo eqhelekileyo okanye encamathiselwe ekopi, kuba intsusa kunye nokunyaniseka ngundoqo ekuthatheni ingqalelo yomnye umsebenzisi. Bonisa umdla ngokubuza imibuzo ethile malunga nezinto abanomdla kuzo okanye amava omsebenzi. Kwakhona, sebenzisa uburharha okanye ireferensi yobuqu ukophula umkhenkce. Khumbula, Incoko enomdla nenyanisekileyo inomtsalane ngakumbi kunombuliso olula.

Ukuqukumbela, ukuqala incoko kwiTinder akufuneki kube ngumsebenzi onzima ukuba ulandela iingcebiso zobugcisa kunye nezicwangciso. Khumbula ukuba inkcazo ebonakalayo kunye nechazayo yeprofayile yakho ibalulekile ukutsala umdla wabanye abasebenzisi, kwaye uhlalutyo olucacileyo lweprofayile yomntu onomdla lunokuba ngundoqo ekuqaliseni ingxoxo enentsingiselo. Yiba yintsusa, bonisa umdla wokwenyani, kwaye usebenzise uburharha njengesixhobo sokuqhekeza umkhenkce. Ngoku, ukulungele ukuqalisa iincoko eziyimpumelelo kwiTinder!

1. Ukubaluleka kokubonakala kokuqala kwiTinder

Ukuphumelela kwi-Tinder, kubalulekile ukuqaphela ukubaluleka kombono wokuqala.⁤ Kweli qonga lokuthandana, umsebenzisi ngamnye ufuna ukwenza umbono olungileyo ukusuka kumzuzu wokuqala ukubamba ingqalelo kwaye avuselele umdla womdlalo wabo onokwenzeka. Imbono yokuqala iqinisekile kwaye inokuvula iingcango zencoko yexesha elizayo, okanye ivale ngokusisigxina.

Xa uqalisa incoko kwiTinder, kubalulekile Thatha ingqalelo imiba engundoqo emininzi⁤. Okokuqala, kubalulekile ukufunda ngononophelo kwaye uhlalutye iprofayili yomdlalo onokuthi ube nawo, ubeke ingqalelo kwizinto abazithandayo, izinto abazithandayo kunye nezinto abazithandayo. Oku kuya kukuvumela ukuba wenze umyalezo wokuqalisa kwaye wenze uqhagamshelo lokwenyani Ukususela ekuqaleni.

Enye inkalo efanelekileyo xa uqala incoko kwiTinder kuphephe clichés kunye nemiyalezo generic. Abantu abaninzi bafumana imiyalezo efanayo nekruqulayo yonke imihla, ngoko ke ukuma ngaphandle kunye nokwahlula kubalulekile. Esikhundleni sokusebenzisa amabinzana aqhelekileyo, anokuxelwa kwangaphambili, unokukhetha ukubuza umbuzo onomdla onxulumene nolwazi lweprofayili okanye wenze inkcazo yokwenene kunye nenyanisekileyo malunga nesithombe esithile.

2. Uwubhala njani umyalezo onomtsalane kunye nowenzelwe wena kwiTinder

Ukuba ufuna ukuphumelela xa uqala incoko kwiTinder, kubalulekile ukuba ubhale umyalezo onomtsalane nowenzelwe wena. Undoqo kukubamba ingqalelo yomnye umntu uze uvelise umdla wokwazi ngakumbi. Apha sikunika iingcebiso zokuphumeza oku:

1. Funda iprofayile yakhe: Phambi kokuba uthumele umyalezo, ziphe ixesha lokufunda iprofayile yomntu onomdla kuye. Jonga izinto abazithandayo, izinto abazithandayo okanye izinto abazithandayo, kwaye usebenzise olu lwazi yenza umyalezo oqhelekileyo. Ngokomzekelo, ukuba uthi uyakuthanda ukukhwela intaba, unokumbuza ngendlela ayithandayo okanye wabelane ngamava afanayo.

2. Balaselisa iimpawu zaboInye indlela esebenzayo Ukutsala umdla kukuqaqambisa umgangatho othile okanye uphawu oluye lwabamba ingqalelo yakho kwiprofayile yabo. Umzekelo, ukuba ukhankanya ukuba uyakuthanda ukufota, unokuthetha into enje: “Ndiyathanda ukuba unothando lokufota, ukhe wathatha imifanekiso yobungcali? Ndingathanda ukubona umsebenzi wakho. Oku kungqina umdla wokwenene kwaye inokuvelisa impendulo eyakhayo.

3. Izicwangciso zokuthatha ingqalelo kwiTinder

Zininzi buchule onokuthi uyisebenzise Fumana ingqalelo kwiTinder kwaye ulawule ukuqalisa incoko eyimpumelelo. Enye yazo⁢ kukuba neprofayile enomtsalane neyenziwe kakuhle. Khetha iifoto ezisemgangathweni olungileyo kwaye ubonise iinkalo ezahlukeneyo zobuntu bakho. Kwakhona kubalulekile ukuba nenkcazo emfutshane nenomtsalane eyenza umdla kwabanye abasebenzisi.

Okunye qhinga Okusebenzayo kukusebenzisa umyalezo wokuqala kunye noyilo lokuvula. Kuphephe imibuliso eqhelekileyo kunye namabinzana akruqulayo, endaweni yoko, sebenzisa ingqikelelo yakho ukubamba ingqalelo yomnye umntu ukusuka kumzuzu wokuqala. Ngaba ungayenza buza imibuzo enomdla okanye ugqabaze ngento enxulumene neprofayile yabo ukuqalisa incoko efanelekileyo nenentsingiselo.

Okokugqibela, kubalulekile ukuthathela ingqalelo ukubaluleka⁤ Ukusebenzisana Ngokuqhubekayo Wakuba uqalile incoko, kubalulekile ukuyigcina isebenza kwaye imanzi. Kuphephe ukuthi cwaka uze ubonise umdla koko kuthethwa ngomnye umntu. Buza imibuzo eyongezelelweyo kwaye wabelane ngeenkcukacha zobuqu ukugcina incoko iqhubeka. Khumbula⁢ ukuba isitshixo sokufumana ingqwalasela kwiTinder kukuba mnandi, umdla kwaye⁤ uyinyani.

4. Sebenzisa uburharha ukuqalisa incoko eyimpumelelo kwiTinder

Ngokusebenzisa iTinder, enye yezona zinto zidumileyo zokuthandana, Uburharha bunokuba sisixhobo esinamandla sokuqalisa incoko ephumelelayo.. Inyani yokuhlekisa umntu a indlela esebenzayo ukubamba ingqalelo yabo kunye nokuseka uxhulumaniso kwasekuqaleni, nangona kunjalo, kubalulekile ukusebenzisa uburharha bakho ngendlela efanelekileyo nehloniphekileyo yokuphepha ukukhubekisa okanye ukucaphukisa omnye umntu.

Enye indlela yokusebenzisa uburharha kwiTinder kukuba yenza isiqhulo esinxulumene neprofayile⁤ okanye iifoto. Umzekelo, ukuba umntu unefoto yakhe edlala ibhola ekhatywayo, unokuthi, "Wow, izakhono zakho zebhola ziyancomeka!" Ndiyathemba ukuba awukhohlisi kwimidlalo yeTinder. Ngale ndlela, ubonisa umdla kwiprofayile⁤ yabo kunye ngexesha elinye,⁤ usebenzisa uburharha ukwenza incoko eyonwabisayo nekhaphukhaphu.

Obunye ubuchule obusebenzayo ⁤ qalisa incoko ngomdlalo yamagamaUmzekelo, ukuba umntu unenkcazo kwiprofayile yakhe ethi "umthandi wezilwanyana," unokuthi, "Molo mthandi wesilwanyana! Loluphi uhlobo oluthandayo? "Eyam yicappu-cino, kuba ndiyakuthanda ukuvuka ndigone ikomityi yekofu." Olu hlobo lokuvula oluyilayo lubonisa ubukrelekrele bakho kunye noburharha, obunokunceda ukuseka incoko eyonwabisayo neyonwabisayo kwasekuqaleni.

5. Gwema i-clichés kunye namabinzana aqhelekileyo kwimiyalezo ye-Tinder

Xa uqalisa incoko yingxubuwa, ibalulekile ziphephe ii-clichés kunye namabinzana aqhelekileyo oko kunokubangela ukuba umyalezo wakho ulahleke ⁢phakathi kwabanye. Ukuma kwaye ubambe ingqwalasela yomntu ofuna ukuqala incoko, kubalulekile ukubonisa imvelaphi kunye nobuchule. Esikhundleni sokusebenzisa amabinzana aqhelekileyo afana no "Molo, unjani?", zama ukugxila kwinto ekhethekileyo malunga nomntu ofuna ukudibana naye.

Endaweni yokusebenzisa ipali Njengokuthi, "Ngaba uyintombazana enomdla?" okanye “Ndikhangela umntu othanda uburharha,” zama ukubalaselisa into ethile ethile kwaye⁢ yinyani kwiprofayile yomntu onomdla kuye. Ngokomzekelo, ukuba uphawula ukuba uyakuthanda ukuhamba intaba, usenokuqala ngokuthi: “Ndiphawule ukuba uyakuthanda ukukhenketha. Yeyiphi eyona ndlela oyithandayo ukuza kuthi ga ngoku?”⁢ Oku kubonisa umdla wokwenene kwaye kukwenza wahluke kwabanye, njengoko kubonisa ukuba unike ingqwalasela kwiinkcukacha zeprofayile yabo.

Enye indlela yokuphepha amabinzana aqhelekileyo ukusebenzisa imibuzo evulekileyo ukuba bayamema emntwini ukwabelana ngakumbi ngaye. Endaweni yokuba ewe okanye hayi imibuzo efana no "Ngaba uyathanda ukuhamba?", Kungcono ukubuza into ebanzi efana "Loluphi uhambo lwakho olunomdla ukuza kuthi ga ngoku?" Ngale ndlela, umntu uyakhuthazwa ukuba avule kwaye abelane ngamava abo, okunceda ukudala uxhulumaniso olunzulu.

6. Ukubaluleka kovelwano kunye nokuphulaphula ngokusebenzayo kwiincoko zeTinder

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Kwi-Tinder, umbono wokuqala ubalulekile. Nangona kunjalo, inkangeleko nje entle okanye inkcazo enomdla kwiprofayile yakho akwanelanga Uvelwano kunye nokuphulaphula okusebenzayo kudlala indima ebalulekileyo kwindlela odibana ngayo nemidlalo yakho. Ukuba novelwano kuthetha ukuzibeka kwimeko yomnye umntu, qonda iimvakalelo kunye neemfuno zakho. Oku kubaluleke ngakumbi kwimeko apho unxibelelwano ngokuyintloko lubhalwe. Nika ingqalelo kwiinkcukacha zemiyalezo yomdlalo wakho kwaye ubonise umdla wokwenyani.

Ukuphulaphula ngenkuthalo yenye inkalo ephambili yeencoko zeTinder. Kubalulekile ukufunda imiyalezo ngononophelo yomdlalo wakho kwaye uqonde umxholo wayo ngokupheleleyo ngaphambi kokuba uphendule. Ziphephe iimpendulo ezintsonkothileyo okanye iimpendulo eziqhelekileyo. Ukuphulaphula ngenkuthalo kuthetha jonga iimpawu zeemvakalelo kunye neenkcukacha ezicacileyo kwimiyalezo yomdlalo wakho, eya kukuvumela ukuba uqhagamshelane ngendlela eyiyo neyobuqu.

Ngokubonisa uvelwano kunye nokuziqhelanisa nokuphulaphula ngokukhutheleyo kwiincoko zakho zeTinder, uya kuseka ubunzulu nobunentsingiselo ngakumbi nemidlalo yakho. Oku kuya kukuvumela ukuba umazi omnye umntu ngcono, uqonde izinto anomdla kuzo kunye neemfuno zabo, kwaye wenze unxibelelwano oluyinyani ngakumbi. Khumbula ukuba izijekulo ezincinci kunye neenkcukacha zibalulekile, njengokubuza malunga nosuku lwabo okanye ukwabelana ngamava afanelekileyo obuqu. Bonisa umdla wokwenene uze ubonise ukuba ukukhathalele ukumazi omnye umntu. Ngokwenza njalo, uya kwandisa amathuba akho okuba neencoko ezinomdla nezihlala ixesha elide kwiTinder.

7. Ulwakha njani uqhagamshelo olunentsingiselo kwi-Tinder usebenzisa imibuzo evulelekileyo necingisisiweyo

Ehlabathini yokuthandana kwi-intanethi, yingxubuwa Sesinye sezona zicelo zidumileyo ukudibana nabantu entsha. Nangona kunjalo, kudla ngokuba nzima ukuqalisa incoko kunye nokudala unxibelelwano olunentsingiselo ngeqonga imibuzo evulelekileyo necingayo onokuthi usebenzise ukuseka incoko yababini enomdla kunye neyinyani kunye nemidlalo yakho kwiTinder.

1. Phonononga imidla eqhelekileyo: Indlela esebenzayo yokuqhawula umkhenkce kwaye ufumane izihloko zencoko kwiTinder kukubuza malunga nezinto ezinomdla ekwabelwana ngazo. Umzekelo, ukuba nobabini niyawonwabela umculo, unokubuza, "Yeyiphi ingoma oyithandayo ngalo lonke ixesha kwaye ngoba?" Lo mbuzo umema umdlalo wakho ukuba ubonise kwaye wabelane ngenxalenye ebalulekileyo yesazisi sabo.

2. Fumanisa amaphupha akho kunye neminqweno: Imibuzo malunga namaphupha kunye neenjongo zinokunceda ukwakha uxhulumaniso olunzulu. Umbuzo: "Ukuba ubunokwenza nantoni na ehlabathini kwaye imali ibingengomqobo, ubuya kwenza ntoni?" Lo mbuzo uvula “umnyango” kwiincoko ezichulumancisayo⁢ malunga neminqweno kunye neminqweno yomntu, ikuvumela ukuba ubazi ngcono kwaye useke iqhina elisondele kakhulu.

3. Ikhuthaza ukuzikisa ukucinga: Ukwenza udibaniso lwenyani,⁤ kubalulekile ukulungisa nzulu⁤ izihloko. Umbuzo: "Ngowuphi owona mngeni mkhulu oye wawoyisa ebomini bakho kwaye wakufundisa ntoni?" Lo mbuzo umema umdlalo wakho ukuba wabelane ngamava anentsingiselo kwaye ucinge ngokufunda kunye nokukhula kobuqu, okunokukhokelela kwincoko enzulu, eyenzelwe wena.

8. Iingcebiso zokugcina incoko enomdla kunye ne-fluid kwi-Tinder

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-Musa ukunika ukubaluleka ku "Molo"
Umbuliso wokuqala unokuba yinto ekruqulayo kwaye awongezi kakhulu kwincoko. Kunokuba ubuze, "Molo, unjani?", Kungcono ukuqala ngenkcazo enomdla okanye umbuzo obangela umdla ovusa umdla womnye umntu. Ngokomzekelo, endaweni yokuthi “Molo,” unokuthi: “Ubusazi⁤ ukuba iinyosi ziyakwazi ukubona ubuso?” Ndixelele, ngaba unazo naziphi na iziphiwo ezingaqhelekanga onazo?”⁣ Ngale ndlela, imekobume eyonwabisa ngakumbi iyadalwa kwaye omnye umntu uyakhuthazwa ukuba aphendule ngokuzenzekela ngakumbi.

– Bonisa umdla wokwenene
Akukho nto idemotha ngakumbi kunencoko apho kuphela omnye wabathathi-nxaxheba onomdla wokwazi omnye. Qiniseka ukuba ubonakalisa umdla wokwenene kuloo mntu uthetha naye. Buza imibuzo evulelekileyo malunga nezinto abazithandayo, abanomdla, okanye amava kwaye umamele ngononophelo iimpendulo zabo. Yiphephe imibuzo evaliweyo efuna impendulo emfutshane kuphela, njengoko oku kuthintela ukuhamba kwencoko. Khumbula ukuba sonke sinamabali anomdla esinokubalisa, sifuna nje ithuba lokwabelana ngawo.

– Sebenzisa uburharha
Incoko elulwelo kunye emnandi iya kuhlala ixhamla ngokuchukumisa uburharha. Ungoyiki ukwenza iziqhulo okanye amagqabaza ahlekisayo nangona kunjalo, yilumkele imida yakho kwaye uphephe ukwenza iziqhulo ezinokukhubekisa okanye ezingalunganga. Uburharha bunokuba yindlela entle yokuqhekeza umkhenkce kwaye wenze unxibelelwano olunzulu nomnye umntu. Ukongeza, ukuhleka kunye kudala ngakumbi ⁢okukhululekileyo okusingqongileyo okukhokelela kwincoko etyebisayo. Sukuwajongela phantsi amandla oburharha obulungileyo ukugcina incoko enika umdla kwiTinder.

9. Ukubaluleka kokuhambelana kunye nokunyaniseka kwiincoko zeTinder

Ehlabathini lokuthandana kwi-intanethi, ukungaguquguquki kunye nokunyaniseka zizinto ezibalulekileyo zokuba neencoko eziyimpumelelo kwi-Tinder. Ukungaguquguquki kubandakanya ukugcina ukuhamba okuthe gqolo kwemiyalezo kunye neempendulo, ukuphepha ukuthula okude okunokwenza omnye umntu alahlekelwe ngumdla, kwelinye icala, kubandakanya ukubonisa ukuba ungubani ngokwenene kunye nokunyaniseka kwiincoko zakho. Zombini ezi mpawu zibalulekile ⁣ekusekweni koqhakamshelwano lokwenyani ⁤kunye nokwakha ubudlelwane obuqinileyo⁢ kweli qonga.

Xa uncokola kwiTinder, kubalulekile gcina ⁢umdla womnye umntuOku kuphunyezwa ngokuphendula ngexesha elifanelekileyo kunye ⁢ nokubonisa umdlandla ⁤ nomdla kwiimpendulo ezifunyenweyo. Ziphephe iimpendulo ze-monosyllabic okanye zegeneric⁢ ezinganiki thuba lencoko enika umdla. Kunoko, bonisa ukuba unomdla wokufunda ngakumbi ngomnye umntu ngokumbuza imibuzo evulelekileyo kwaye ubonise umdla kwiimpendulo zakhe.

La ubunyani Ngomnye umba ophambili weencoko zeTinder. Kwihlabathi apho imbonakalo yomzimba idla ngokuba yinto yokuqala ukubonwa, kubalulekile ukubonisa ubuntu bakho bokwenene kwiincoko zakho. Kuphephe ukwenza izinto ezingeyonyani okanye abantu abangakumeliyo ncam. Nyaniseka malunga nezinto ozithandayo, izinto onomdla kuzo kunye namava, njengoko oku kuya kukuvumela ukuba wakhe unxibelelwano lokwenyani noluhlala luhleli.

10. Uyiphelisa njani incoko ngembeko nangembeko kwiTinder

Xa uzifumana ukwincoko kwiTinder ukuba awusenamdla wokuqhubeka, kubalulekile ukuyiphelisa ngokuthozama nangembeko. Nazi ezinye iingcebiso malunga nendlela yokwenza:

1.⁢ Bonisa umbulelo wakho kunye nombulelo: Ngaphambi kokuba uphelise incoko, kubalulekile ukuqaphela uze ulixabise ixesha nengqalelo enikelwa ngomnye umntu. Unokuthi: "Enkosi ngokuthatha ixesha lokuthetha nam, bekunomdla ukufumana umbono wakho."

2. Nyaniseka kodwa unobubele: Ukuthetha ngeemvakalelo zakho ngokunyaniseka kubalulekile, kodwa kufuneka usoloko usenza ngendlela ehloniphekileyo. Unokuthetha into enje, "Ndiyayixabisa inkampani yakho, kodwa ndivakalelwa kukuba asikhangeli into efanayo ngoku."

3. Cacisa umnqweno wakho wokuphelisa incoko: Ukuphepha ukubhideka, kubalulekile ukuba ucace xa uvakalisa injongo yakho yokuphelisa incoko. Ungathetha into enje, "Ndicinga ukuba kungcono ukuba siyishiye incoko apha, kodwa ndikunqwenelela okuhle kukhangelo lwakho."

Khumbula ukuba kubalulekile ukuphatha abanye ngentlonipho nolwazelelelo, nakwindawo yedijithali efana neTinder. ⁤Ngokulandela ezi ngcebiso, uya kuba nakho ukuphelisa ⁤incoko ngendlela echubekileyo nenentlonipho, I-la vez ukuba ugcine ⁤⁤umfanekiso omhle wakho kwi⁤platform.