Lisho ukuthini elithi "it makes me cringe"? Ngakho inkulumo eyimfashini

Amanethiwekhi omphakathi abe yindawo yokuzalanisa izinkulumo ezintsha kanye ne-slang ehamba ngokushesha futhi ihlanganiswe nolimi lwansuku zonke lwezigidi zabantu emhlabeni jikelele Enye yalezi zinkulumo ezithathe ukunakwa Kwabaningi "inginika ukucindezeleka." Kodwa, Kusho ukuthini ngempela ukuthi “kungiphatha kabi”? Futhi kungani selidume kangaka? Ngijoyine kulesi sihloko njengoba sihlahlela le nqubo, sihlola incazelo yayo, imvelaphi, nendlela yokuyisebenzisa kahle.

Lisho ukuthini elithi "it makes me cringe"? Isambulo senkulumo yemfashini

Igama elithi "cringe" livela esiNgisini futhi,⁤ nakuba lingenakho ukuhunyushelwa okuqondile kusi-Spanish, lihlobene nomuzwa wokungakhululeki noma ukuphoxeka okukhulu kangangokuthi kucishe kube buhlungu. Isho "kungenza ngithuke" ukuveza ukuthi into ethile noma othile ukwenza uzizwe waliwe ngenxa yokuziphatha kwakhe, ⁤isenzo noma isimo osithatha njengenhlekisa, asifaneleki noma esibangela amahloni.

Umsuka wenkulumo ethi “kuyangikhathaza”

Igama elithi "cringe" selikhona olimini lwesiNgisi isikhathi eside, kodwa ukusetshenziswa kwalo kwamanje kanye nokuduma kwenkulumo ethi "cringe me" kungalandelelwa ekukhuleni kwezinkundla zokuxhumana, ikakhulukazi, izinkundla ezifana ne-YouTube , TikTok , kanye ne-Reddit, lapho okuqukethwe okufanelekelayo kube uhlobo ngokwakho.

Izibonelo zansuku zonke zokuthi "kunginika ukudangala"

• Ukubona umuntu ezama ukwenza into epholile kodwa ehluleka kabuhlungu.
• Ukuzwa amahlaya amabi noma imizamo ehlulekile yokudlala ngothando.
• Okuqukethwe ezinkundleni zokuxhumana okuzama ukujula noma ukukhuthaza kodwa okuvela ukuthi kuyazenzisa.

Kungani "ingenza ngicindezeleke"?

Manje njengoba sesiyazi ukuthi kusho ukuthini ukuthi "kunginika i-cringe", singazibuza: Kungani izimo ezithile noma ukuziphatha kusibangela lomuzwa? Impendulo itholakala emuzweni wethu wokuzwelana nezinkambiso zethu zangaphakathi zomphakathi. Akekho othanda ukubona ukuphoxeka kwabanye abantu, futhi uma sibona othile esesimweni esibangela amahloni, singaveza leyo mizwa kithina.

Umthelela womphakathi we-⁢cringe

Ukusetshenziswa kwegama elithi “me da cringe” akuyona nje inkomba yokuzwela kwethu kanye nemikhawulo yokunethezeka, kodwa futhi kukhombisa indlela izinkambiso zomphakathi nezamasiko ezinquma ngayo lokho esikubheka njengokwamukelekayo noma okungamukeleki ekuziphatheni komuntu.

Ungalisebenzisa kanjani igama elithi "me da cringe" ngendlela efanele

Ukusebenzisa okuthi “I cringe” engxoxweni kungaba ithuluzi elinamandla lokuxhumana nabanye ababelana ngehlaya lakho noma ukugxeka kwakho komphakathi. Nokho,⁤ kubalulekile ukulisebenzisa ngokuhlakanipha ukuze ungacasuli noma ulimaze imizwa yabanye.

• Qaphela umongo: Akuwona wonke umuntu ozothola i-cringe efana neyakho.
• Sebenzisa isisho nabantu obathembayo: Abangane abasondelene noma amalungu omndeni kungenzeka ukuthi aqonde inhloso yakho.
• Khumbula ukuthi okuncane kungaphezu kwalokho: Ukusebenzisa i-"me da cringe" njalo kungayibangela ilahlekelwe umphumela wayo.

 

Ingabe i-cringe ihlale ine-negative?

Nakuba ekuqaleni kungase kubonakale sengathi "kunginika ukudangala" kuhlale kuhlotshaniswa nezimo ezingezinhle, le nkulumo nayo ingasetshenziswa ngendlela yokudlala noma yothando. Ngezinye izikhathi ukuqaphela ukudikibala ezenzweni zethu noma ezabangane abaseduze kungaba uhlobo lokuzigxeka oluhlekisayo noluhlanganisayo.

'Kungiphatha kabi': Isibuko sokusabela kwethu emphakathini

“Kuyangicasula” kungaphezu nje kwenkulumo esemfashinini. Kuyinkomba yokuthi amanethiwekhi omphakathi kanye nezinkundla zokuqukethwe kwedijithali kube nomthelela kanjani ekuxhumaneni kwethu nombono womphakathi. Ngokuhlola incazelo nokusetshenziswa kwegama elithi “me da cringe,” asiqondi nje kangcono lesi sisho, kodwa futhi nezinkambiso zamasiko nezenhlalo ezibusa ukusebenzisana kwethu kwansuku zonke.

Njengoba siqhubeka nokuzulazula enkathini yedijithali,izinkulumo ezinjengokuthi "kunginika ukudangala" zizoqhubeka nokuvela futhi ubonisa izinguquko emphakathini wethu Ngakho ngesikhathi esizayo okuthile kukwenza udikibale, khumbula ukuthi, ngale kokungaphatheki kahle kwasekuqaleni, kukhona ukuhlola okucebile kwezenhlalo namasiko okulinde ukudalulwa.